What To Wear To A House Party – The Ultimate Guide

what to wear to a house party

So, you’ve been invited to a house party – yay! But before you can truly get excited there’s that dreaded problem that needs solving – what to wear? Luckily for you, we’ve got this covered in our ultimate guide to dressing for a house party.

Whether you’re going to be surrounded by friends or mingling with new faces, at a house party you want an outfit that will make an impression without looking like you’re showing off.

Do you go for a party dress or opt for trousers to keep comfortable? Do you totter in proper heels or sensible carpet-appropriate flats? There are so many choices to make.

Here, we take you through the best house party outfit ideas suited to the season and dress code, as well as special occasions such as birthdays, engagements and New Year’s Eve. So, enough worrying and on to the fun!


What To Wear To A Casual House Party

This house party dress code is most likely to be adopted for house parties with the girls where you relax, catch up on gossip and bond over a few glasses of wine. There’s no worry over impressing members of the opposite sex or pressure to make new friends so a casual outfit will suit the occasion well.

However, you do want to make a bit of an effort to make sure you all stay in a celebratory party mood or it turns into something more of a general gathering. This is where the balance between comfortable and party wear gets confusing. The key is to mix elements of both, pairing a pretty dress with a cardigan for example.


Casual Party Playsuit

A playsuit is a great choice for your casual house party outfit. With both comfort and style in mind, this piece is a winner. Plus, you won’t have the headache of wondering what to wear it with for this all-in-one number.

House Party Casual Playsuit Outfit Girl Red Culottes Floral Print Cold Shoulder Model
SHOP: Warehouse / ASOS / Zara

Casual Party Blouse & Jeans

The perfect combination of smart yet casual. A smart blouse will ensure more of a party-appropriate look whereas a pair of jeans will keep you comfortable as you sit back and relax at your friend’s place.

House Party Casual Blouse Shirt Outfit Girl Red Yellow Lace Green Model
SHOP: Zara / Karen Millen / The Kooples



An alternative to making your casual outfit go from everyday to house party appropriate is with the simple addition of a few nice accessories. Add a statement necklace to your t-shirt and jeans ensemble and you’ve got that touch of sparkle you need.

House Party Jewellery Accessories Necklace Earrings Outfit Girl Model
SHOP: Accessorize / COS / Oasis


What To Wear To A Formal House Party

For a sophisticated do, you want to look smart but not business-like. Choose soft clean lines and silhouettes and it’s usually best to stay away from fussy prints. To add that party factor, mix classic and neutral colours with something more colourful.

You’re probably going to want to wear heels for this look (read on for our guide to house party shoes). Think ladylike with personality – it is a party after all.


Formal Party Dress

To make sure your formal dress is suitable for a party, inject a bit colour or embellishment. Whether this is through the dress itself or in the form of an accessory, you want to bring out your fun side.

House Party Wear Dress Fashion Formal Ruffle Lace
SHOP: Reiss / Finery London / Oasis

Formal Party Jumpsuit

A more sophisticated take on the playsuit, the jumpsuit can look super elegant and modern. Go for something with an interesting detail or cut. A ruffle, for example, suggests more fun than prim-and-proper. If you want to be particularly on-trend, this season is all about the wide leg or culotte.

House Party Wear Jumpsuit Fashion Formal Red Twist
SHOP: Reiss / Karen Millen / Finery London

Formal Party Blouse & Skirt

Nothing says lady like a good classic skirt. For formal occasions keep your skirt mid-length to avoid a fashion faux pas. Pair with a stylish blouse for an out-of-office appeal.

House Party Wear Blouse Shirt Fashion Formal Ruffle Pleat
SHOP: ASOS / Oasis / Reiss
House Party Wear Skirt Fashion Formal Pleat Navy Orange Pink Mid
SHOP: COS / Warehouse / Reiss

What To Wear To A House Party For Christmas & New Year’s Eve

These big party occasions are a time to bring out your glamorous side. You want to make it look like you’re going out but not “out-out”. No crazy club lights and dark rooms here so you can’t get away with micro minis and skyscraper heels. Choose something with a bit of dazzle but tone it down by wearing less make-up than you’d wear if you were heading to a club.


Christmas & New Year’s Eve Party Shimmer

Being party-glam can include anything from sequins and glitter to something subtler like silk or satin fabrics that have a slight sheen to them. Take your pick!

House Party Wear Sequins Fashion Sparkly Glitter Blazer Top Jumpsuit
SHOP: Reiss / Warehouse / ASOS / Mango
House Party Wear Blouse Shirt Fashion Formal Evening Shimmer Sheen Silk Satin Pleat
SHOP: Oasis / Reiss / Reiss / Karen Millen

Christmas & New Year’s Eve Party Sheer

Sheer panelling not only looks great but it’s more modest than showing off too much skin.

House Party Wear Sheer Fashion Sparkly Blazer Top Dress

What To Wear To A House Party In Spring / Summer

The spring and summer seasons are just asking for light pastels, prints and floaty fabrics. Not only do the light colours look great against the flowers and blue sky, they also help keep you cool by not absorbing as much heat as darker colours.

Since you may find yourselves venturing outside to the garden, it might be handy to bring a lightweight layer to wear over your outfit as well, as our weather can be a little unpredictable.


Spring / Summer Party Pastels

If you’re attending a party in the daytime or afternoon these colours are perfect whilst the sun’s out. The great thing about pastels is that they suit every skin tone. Dress the season in these sugary hues.

House Party Wear Spring Summer Pastels Fashion Top Dress
SHOP: Mango / The Kooples / Oasis / ASOS

Spring / Summer Party Bold Colour

For an evening event, go bold in bright and eye-catching tones.

House Party Wear Spring Summer Bold Colour Fashion Top Dress
SHOP: ASOS / Zara / Reiss / ASOS

Spring / Summer Party Prints

When you think of spring / summer prints, images of ditsy florals and dreamy patterns come to mind.

House Party Wear Spring Summer Print Floral Fashion Jumpsuit Dress
SHOP: Zara / ASOS / Reiss / Oasis

What To Wear To A House Party In Autumn / Winter

Autumn and winter months call for deep, rich colours and thicker fabrics like leather.


Autumn / Winter House Party Outfits

Earthy colours look great in autumn, and winter is well suited to jewel tones. Wear tactile fabrics such as velvet or suede.

House Party Wear Autumn Winter Earthy Suede Fashion Dress
SHOP: Mango / ASOS / The Kooples
House Party Wear Autumn Winter Jewel Tones Satin Silk Velvet Fashion Dress
SHOP: Zara / Zara / ASOS

Autumn / Winter House Party Layering

You may want to opt for layers that do more to keep you warm such as trousers and the addition of a soft blazer.

House Party Wear Autumn Winter Leather Trousers Suede Blazer Jackt Fashion
SHOP: Zara / The Kooples / Warehouse / Reiss

What To Wear To An Engagement House Party

Similar to the formal house party except engagement parties call for a slightly softer approach, whether that’s achieved through the fabrics, prints or colours.


Engagement House Party Dresses

A dress is the classic choice for an engagement. You may want to stay clear of white but soft pastels and light colours work best. Opt for silk and chiffon fabrics and think pretty when it comes to print.

House Party Wear Fashion Engagement Dress Silk Chiffon Lace Floral
SHOP: Oasis / ASOSMango


Engagement House Party Alternative Outfits

Why not break the mould and go for an alternative to the traditional dresses that dominate an engagement party? Try out a pair of trousers or jumpsuit.

House Party Wear Fashion Engagement Trousers Jumpsuit

Shoes To Wear To A House Party

When it comes to party shoes you’re probably used to bringing out your fanciest pair. At a house party, however, you don’t want to be awkwardly trying to balance on carpet or trying not to scratch a wooden floor.

You may even find that you’re asked to take your shoes off at the door, in which case the fancy heels won’t get their time to shine anyway. And no one wants to end up having their Manolo shoes stolen å la SATC’s Carrie Bradshaw…

Try out these stylish but sturdy options instead or go with fail proof flats.

House Party Wear Fashion Shoes Heels Platforms Wedges Flats Ballet Pumps
SHOP: (Top) Office / ASOS / ASOS / (Bottom) Zara / Topshop / Oasis

Your Quick Guide On What To Wear To A House Party

Keep these quick tips in mind when you’re invited to your next house party and you’ll save yourself a lot of hassle:

  • For a casual house party keep it comfortable but smart in a pair of jeans and a blouse. Use statement accessories to bring an element of ‘party’ to your outfit.
  • A more formal party calls for soft, clean lines with a hint of colour for accent.
  • Big occasions such as Christmas or New Year’s Eve are a time to bring out your glamorous side in something that glistens. Go full-on in sequins or subtle with sheen.
  • The spring and summer months are well suited to the extremes: light pastels or hot bold colour. This season is also a great time to wear prints.
  • In autumn and winter the tone is more subdued. Wear rich colour, jewel tones and tactile fabrics such as velvet or suede.
  • Add layers to the colder months such as a soft blazer or opt for trousers over a dress or skirt.
  • Choose soft fabrics and colours for an engagement. Dresses are the classic choice but try trousers or a jumpsuit if you’re feeling an alternative mood.
  • It’s best to keep away from stilettos when it comes to your shoes. For one, you don’t want to ruin your friend’s flooring, and you may be asked to leave your shoes at the door anyway. Instead, go for platforms or flats. Easy to take off and floor-friendly.


Final Note

Hopefully this guide has given you a clearer idea on how to dress house party appropriate according to every occasion. Next time you’re invited, use this definitive guide for hassle-free dressing!

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